From Exile to Opportunity, A Tribute to My Family’s Bravery

By: Diane Spell, MSW, LCSW
As Hispanic Heritage Month begins, I find myself reflecting on how deeply my identity is shaped
by the strength and sacrifices of my family. I wouldn’t be where I am today if it weren’t for my
mother’s courage to leave everything behind and start anew in a foreign country. Being the first
in my generation to earn a graduate degree is a source of immense pride for me, but it’s a
milestone I didn’t achieve alone. It was made possible by the bravery of my family, who had no
choice but to immigrate under challenging and often heartbreaking circumstances.

My family’s Cuban roots run deep, and our story like so many others carries the weight of
resilience and survival. When the Castro regime took over, my grandfather refused to conform to
the government’s oppressive demands. His resistance resulted in his imprisonment as a political
dissenter, a five-year sentence that forever changed our family’s path. In 1980, my grandfather
was released during the Mariel boatlift, a time when the Cuban government allowed an
estimated 125,000 refugees to leave the island for the U.S.
This mass exodus sent thousands of political prisoners and families to Florida, my grandfather’s family among them. Exiled from the only home he had ever known, he would never again set foot in Cuba, the land that held his
roots, his dreams, and the life he had built. I often think about the unimaginable strength it must
have taken for him to survive those years of imprisonment and, perhaps even more so, the
courage it took to start over in a country that didn’t exactly welcome him with open arms.
At the time of my grandfather’s exile, my mother was just 16. Imagine being a teenager,
uprooted from everything familiar, your friends, your culture, your language and thrown into a
completely foreign world. She didn’t have a choice; she followed her family across the sea, into
a land where she knew no one and didn’t speak the language. But instead of being defeated by
these overwhelming obstacles, my mother faced them head-on. She worked tirelessly to build a
new life, learning English, adjusting to a new culture, and fighting for every opportunity that
came her way. Her story is not only one of survival, but of unrelenting perseverance.
Her journey taught me the values of hard work and persistence values that were deeply instilled
in me as I grew up in a household where nothing was handed to us. Every step I’ve taken
toward my own success has been made with the full knowledge that it was only possible
because of the sacrifices my family made. My accomplishments are not mine alone; they are a
continuation of the legacy of resilience, courage, and tenacity that has been passed down
through generations.
Hispanic Heritage Month is more than a time to celebrate the collective contributions of the
Hispanic community. For me, it’s also a deeply personal time of reflection. It’s a time to honor
the struggles my family endured so that I could have the opportunities I’ve had in life. It’s a
celebration of the strength that comes from our shared history crossing oceans and navigating
the challenges of building a new life in a foreign land, all while holding tight to the essence of
who we are.
Today, as I stand educated, empowered, and proud of my roots I am constantly reminded that I
walk on a path laid by those who came before me. My family’s story is one of courage, of
resisting oppression, of starting over in unfamiliar territory, and of never giving up. It’s a story I

 

carry with me in every step I take, as I honor my heritage and continue to build on the
foundation they so bravely laid